You might have finally got your girl to agree to go on a date with you and now is the real deal. What are you going to do on the first date? You are nervous, you want to impress her and you also do not want to make it look over romantic. If you have a hot date coming up and are wondering what to actually do, here are some tips that will help you impress the girl.

Plan the date around her interests

Personalization is indeed the key here. Girls love the idea of having some plan the first date based on their interests. You need to pick up clues from the text messages or social media platforms and plan a similar date keeping their interests at the forefront. It will make the girl feel special and loved. 

Drinks and movies always work

If you are someone who is not sure what your date is into, you can always choose a movie, drinks and maybe a walk after that. The drinks will get you talking and a movie will break up the convo. Depending on the vibe you have with the person, you can decide to go on a walk. If nothing, you can discuss the movie on the walk. Louisa Knight has some fun ideas for a first date for you. 

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Are you a baby boomer looking for love? Have you thought about turning to online dating? Before you write off online dating as an option just for younger people, wait just a second. According to a survey by the Pew Research Center, 55- to 64-year-olds have doubled in their online dating use since 2013. That means that if you sign up for online dating, you’ll be in good company.

Why Online Dating?

Online dating makes sense for many baby boomers. It lets you easily connect with plenty of other people – and you know anyone on the dating site is also looking for a relationship. Online dating makes meeting new people easier, especially when you’re not someone who often goes to large, social events. If you’re busy, work from home, or are retired, then online dating might be a great option for you.

There’s another reason to consider online dating as a baby boomer: Technology makes it incredibly easy to get started. If you have a computer or a smartphone, then you can use and easily access online dating. It’s convenient, affordable, and effective.

Tips to Get Started with Online Dating as a Baby Boomer

Ready to give online dating a try? These tips will help you to get started. [Read more…]

As much as it is hard to believe, people are still discussing whether couples should move in together before marriage or not. It is a topic of concern both by parents and the young people themselves. Many decades ago, we could say this is a ‘’no-no’’ without a debate. However, the millennials have different opinions and most of them are already living together before they can tie knots.

The experts from https://www.happymatches.com/ are of the opinion that people should weigh the pros and cons of living together before marriage. To help many who would be in the dark, we have prepared some highlights for both sides. Read on to know more. [Read more…]

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Girls are accustomed to sharing tips on how to lose a guy in 10 days. However, everybody keeps quiet about the tips on how to get rid of a clingy girl. Such a girl can be persistent and unattractive, decisive and desperate. Tons of makeup and clothes do not hide the actual appearance, and it makes you feel doubly bad. Someone will say that even monsters don’t pay much attention to them, and these tips on how to get rid of a girl are useless. Nonetheless, take your time. It may turn out that very soon you will be forced to look for any possible ways to get rid of a “princess.”

Classical way.

It is a very old way that was mentioned even in ancient myths. The simplest thing is to make up a mythical girlfriend who allegedly lives in another city, and with whom you are madly in love.

However, do not make a scene, telling her that you would be happy to love her with all her shortcomings, but you cannot cheat on your imaginary Persephone. Doing that, you will only strengthen the flame of hope in a terrible loving soul.

Side effect: the guy has said that he does not cheat, he shouldn’t cheat. While the aggressor is still nearby, you cannot start a new relationship. And nobody knows how long this will last. [Read more…]

By Sheila R. Klatzky

Millennial daughters want to grow up.  Their Baby Boomer mothers don’t want to grow old.  That sets up a dance of ambivalence and resentment that can last for years, leaving the relationship in tatters.  So, what can mothers do to promote a healthier adult mother-daughter relationship?  Better communication is one important key.

Here are ten DOs and DON’Ts that can help improve communication between mothers and their adult daughters:

DO find ways to change the way you speak.  Does your so-called “advice” to your daughter consist mostly of criticism?  Do you constantly notice ways she could improve her appearance, her home, her hair?  If so, you are pushing her away.  If she wants your advice, she’ll ask for it.  And even when she does, be careful what you say.  She is probably seeking validation, not a recommendation for change.

DO listen with empathy.  Ask probing, open-ended questions to better understand her point of view.   Try to imagine what it is like seeing the world through her eyes, the eyes of a 20- or 30-something dealing with circumstances and conditions that are different from those you faced when you were her age.

DO be the bearer of good news as well as bad.  It’s ok to share bad news, but don’t let it dominate every conversation.  Find ways to let your daughter know that your life is positive and fulfilling so that she’ll have one less thing to worry about.   If your life isn’t positive and fulfilling, find ways to make it so.

DO ask directly for what you want or need.  Indirect communication may be effective when you want a diamond bracelet from your husband for your anniversary, but it puts an unnecessary burden on the mother-adult relationship when she has to find the hidden message in everything you say.  [Read more…]

By Sue Rice

First of all, congratulations!  Your marriage has survived raising kids, getting along with in laws, illness, money worries – all the things that come at you in life. Retirement is supposed to be the time when you can finally relax and enjoy your golden years, right?  Then why is it that so many retired couples find this time of life to be so exasperating and contentious?

Other than weekends and a vacation now and then you and your spouse probably haven’t spent a great deal of time together 24/7.  

Here are 10 tips to help you make the most of your retirement. [Read more…]