Bring Some Magic and Spark Back into the Bedroom

Updated on July 7, 2020

As most couples know, sex can be fantastic when you first get together, and often couples cannot get enough of one another. However, when you have been together for a while, you have a place together, perhaps even have a young family, this side of the relationship often suffers. It can be difficult to get time to spend with one another at all when you have so many other commitments so finding the time to get physical on a regular basis can seem nigh on impossible.

If you want to ensure you have a well-balanced and satisfying relationship, it is important to work on this side of things. Of course, when you have work, kids, and other commitments, you cannot go at it all the time like you may have done when you first met. However, you can still have fun and enjoy putting some magic and spark back into your bedroom activities. In this article, we will look at a few of the ways in which you can do this.

Adding that Magical Spark

So, how can you add that magical spark to your relationship? Well, one thing you might not have tried in the past is the use of adult toys, which provide a great solution to livening things up in the bedroom. If you don’t get much time to enjoy intimacy you want to make the most of the time you do have, and these toys can certainly help. You will find everything from cock rings and vibrators through to an Autoblow blowjob machine, so there is something for him, for her, and for couples to enjoy. You can also purchase with total discretion and privacy online, so you don’t even have to worry about feeling embarrassed.

Another thing that lots of couples fail to try simply due to embarrassment is role play. You probably have fantasies that you have never shared with your partner and the chances are they also have their own fantasies. Rather than bottling then up, you can share them and then live them out in your own bedroom. Of course, it’s best to do this when the kids are not there so you may have to pack them off to their Gran’s for the night! This is a great way to enjoy living you’re your sexual fantasies with scenarios and dressing up.

A steamy weekend away is something that lots of couples do in order to help bring some magic back into their sex life. Often, the pressure and stress of everyday life can put you off but when you step away from it all in new surroundings, this can all change. You can just book a weekend away where you can both enjoy time to talk, be a couple, and enjoy some intimacy.

These are just a few of the solutions you can consider if you want to make things more exciting and magical when it comes to activities in the bedroom with your partner.  


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